Thursday, March 19, 2015

Must Read For Ladies - Men Marry the Women They Want to Marry

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By Charlyboy

The idea that men are clueless allows them to get away with all manner of bad behavior that would have been intolerable just a generation or two ago.

Men know that most women want marriage. Women need to know that many men will do everything in their power to get all the benefits of marriage, except without commitment. While you’re getting exasperated thinking he’s stupid because he spends money on you, he’s running you. Men understand women on a level that you can never begin to grasp, because it’s from the mindset of a hunter. And a good hunter has an intrinsic understanding of his prey. Women make the mistake of thinking that they are wiser than men.

Friday, February 6, 2015

Women In Sexless Marriages Should 'Fantasize About the Hottest Man you Want' - Charlyboy

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The other day, I was invited by The Rotary Club, Asokoro branch, to come and have a small talk with them. The theme of the talk was, Longevity in Marriage and the challenges of bonding. Why me? I guess what qualified me is my seemingly fairytale marriage to Lady Diane for the past 37yrs..

Hummmm e no easy sha. On the D day, it was as informal as I had requested, as we all shared some of our challenges in our present relationships.

I guess most of us including me, walked out of the Hall room that day with some take-away on tips of how to keep our relationships and marriages refreshing. It was a very warm interactive session, as phones numbers and Hi fives were exchanged at the end.

Thursday, January 15, 2015

#ThrowbackThursday - Charly Boy Rocks The Stage In 1983

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Some of us reading were not even born in 1983! But Charly Boy is an Area Fada and it's not just a nick name. The verteran musician has been in the industry for more than 40 years. The 63 year old shared these pictures on Instagram to the years when he was just beginning.

See more below...

Friday, December 5, 2014

Charly Boy On Being Molested At 10 And His Sexually Promiscous Teenage Years

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63-year-old Nigerian entertainer, Charles Oputa Jnr, more commonly known as Charly Boy has been married to wife, Diane, for over 30 years. That sounds straightforward until you learn she is his fourth wife, and he already has a son that is 46 years old.

In a new essay titled, 'My Wandering Penis', Charly Boy opens up on his past, being molested at age 10 which led to a sexually promiscous life until is wife and Buddhism helped him gain self control. He also admits creating a gay person to help ward off his female admirers, read on..

Monday, September 29, 2014

Charly Boy Says Entertainers Go Into Politics For “Money They Want To Steal”

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Charly Boy has revealed his observation about the Nigerian entertainers who have recently been flocking into politics.

“I know that most of them are bad and they are people who have not nurtured themselves as leaders and are involved in politics because of the money they want to steal.”

Desmond Elliot, Kate Henshaw, Tony Tetuila, Julius Agwu and 9ice have announced they are contesting for office in the next electoral season.

Read some more excerpts from the interview with Punch below...

Sunday, September 21, 2014

Family Time - Charly Boy With His Wife And Three Daughters

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Musician and activist Charly Boy shared this pictures recently while discussing Blood Ties we have with our family members. Charly Boy is turning out to be a very versatile and intuitive writer, and you can check out his featured articles, here. On family, he writes;

The other day I called a family meeting, in attendance was three of my daughters, two from the United states (Adaeze/Margaret) who have finished their master’s degree, looking for juicy employment, my eldest daughter Yvonne, who more or less runs my business. My first grandchild Olivia who is on vacation from school in Mauritius, my Mum, my last son Charles who runs his own fashion business and doesn’t live with me, my younger brothers daughter Nancy waiting to move in with her husband and my wife Lady Di.

A house full of women, hummm. The main crux of the meeting was reinforcing their sense of responsibility as long as they remain in my house and how we need to enhance our bounding and the love we share by doing things that promotes a united family. In short God blessed me with a good family.

See more photos when you continue reading, and see the full article on Charly Boy's website.

Saturday, August 16, 2014

Marriage Is An Impossible Fusion - Charly Boy

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A soulmate marriage does not at all mean that you have found someone you match up with on all the cards – on all the issues, on everything. That would be the most deadly dull thing to even imagine. Instead, it means you've found someone and they don't ever want to blow out that little light inside you. And you feel the same way about them.

Growing up, seeing my Dad and Mum play the happy couple,  holding hands, stealing kisses, made marriage look so easy and beautiful. Hummmm for where?

Don't get it twisted, I saw them argue and quarrel as if they couldn't stand each other, but the next minute, they were back to their normal routine of holding hands and stealing kisses, even till my father passed at 97.

Sunday, August 3, 2014

Charly Boy and His Wife Diane Oputa Show Their Love In Gothic Photoshoot

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Charles Oputa a.k.a Charly Boy, is 63 years old, and has been married to Diane 'Lady D' Oputa for over 30 years. The couple are a shining example that not all married people have to be staid and "respectable" in the way we all think society expects.

The former musician and activist has been in the photo studios recently for some gothic shoots with female models, and his wife was right there with him and the models. And the couple got in some love all by themselves too.

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Saturday, February 22, 2014

The See Finish Syndrome (For Couples Only)

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By Charly Boy.

When two people, lovers, friends, partners or even team mates can consistently predict one another's moves like clockwork, it is called see finish.

See finish can help one in fully understanding your partner. However, see finish in a marriage has its own bad sides, if not checked can lead to the death of DESIRE in a marriage, especially, sexually. That's when couples start to take each other for granted and no longer as granted. See finish in a marriage is when one spouse is desperately yearning for more sex, connection or physical closeness, and the other for whatever reason seems a bit unconcerned about their partner’s feelings, or just not with it any more.

Monday, November 11, 2013

In God's Name - Charly Boy Writes on Religion

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My guy, things are falling apart and the Center can no longer hold. People just dey craze anyhow and dem go see anyhow.  Jungle don mature, HA!!! I fit faint. When I was a little boy in the city of Peterkwa, called Port-Harcourt, I was taught NEVER to use God’s name in vain. Nowadays, everybody just dey call God name anyhow dem like.

Saturday, October 26, 2013

A Shout Out To Haters and Losers By Charly Boy Oputa

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The other day I was at the departure hall at Nnamdi Azikewe airport waiting for my flight. I was tucked away at a corner, from people's preying eyes, at least so I thought. My flight was delayed so I had about 2hrs to kill. As I reached into my backpack to get my iPad and keep myself busy till boarding time, a man with two teen girls approached me; they were all beaming with the most enchanting smiles I have ever seen.  "Charly these are my daughters, they’ve been worrying me that they want to take pictures with you” I obliged, as their father took position to capture a golden moment for his two teen daughters.

Friday, October 11, 2013

If You Must Marry, Wait For The Right Person - Charly Boy To Singles

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By Charly Boy

Wanting so badly to get hooked is something many people seem to take far too lightly and for granted these days. Something some of them feel they should do to win acceptance from people and society. These days’ people look at the package and never the content, forgetting that marriage should be a life time commitment of two strangers. In some cases the marriage may workout, like, Charles and Diane, Tunde and Wummie. But most of the time it falls like a park of cards, because as people are rushing to get in, people are rushing to get out, at an alarming rate. Kai!!

Saturday, August 17, 2013

To All The Single Ladies, Nothing Do You - Open Letter From Charlie Boy

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Charly Boy may be a controversial artiste because he likes to push the envelope with his appearance and performances, but he's also a loving husband and family man - a father and grandfather. In this open letter inspired by a discussion he had with one of his daughters, Charly Boy, who has been married for over 35 years, discusses the changing state of marriage in Nigeria today, and his advice to single ladies.

Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Charly Boy Oputa on Marriage - Love and Respect Your Woman

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Charles Oputa a.k.a Charly Boy, who is 62years today, has been married to Diane 'Lady D' Oputa for over 30 years. In an appreciation note to celebrate his birthday, she writes, "...My Husband and Friend, our love shall never end, even when it goes through the fire, because you and only you are my true heart desire.... Thanks for being there for us, thanks for loving me and for all the beautiful memories you have given me so far. To my soul mate, lover and best friend…"