Sunday, March 15, 2015

Woman Slammed For Seeking Baby-Daddy Online After One Night Stand Pregnancy

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Bianca Fazey from Australia had unprotected sex, during a one-night stand with a man in Perth, on April 23 last year and surprisingly discovered she was pregnant soon after. She had diagnosed with polycystic ovary syndrome in 2011 and had been told that she was unlikely to ever become pregnant easily. This is probably why she chose not to terminate the pregnancy, and she also believes the father has as much right to the child as the mother.

So Bianca has been looking for her one night stand partner since she realized she was pregnant. Unfortunately, she has had no luck, even going as far as posting an ad on Gumtree some months ago, but she is determined to keep searching, especially after her baby almost died at birth.

According to Dailymail, the 25-year-old frantically searched for the father for five months offline but had no success. She only knew his name was Jeremy who was from the Perth suburb of Morley, but that did not yield results at the bar they met, or the hotel they spent time together in.

As a last-ditch attempt she decided to post an online ad, as seen above, but that has only created unexpected vitriolic responses from total strangers.

'I was at my wits end. I tried finding him for months and felt pressured by a friend who was adamant I don't give up despite exhausting all avenues.'

The barrage of hateful responses prompted her to take to take the ad down.

'I stupidly put it up thinking no one would even see it but who knows what will happen, maybe I will get lucky. Unfortunately all I got was lots of judgement and idiots messaging me telling me they would be the father or pretending to be Jeremy.' 

Social media users who saw the ad labelled Bianca an unfit mother and accused her of telling her story just for the money. She finally had to make a statement on her Facebook page, and also responded to accusations that she was being paid to do the media interviews.

'I'm so appalled at comments that I am a bad mother and 'god help my child'. It makes me sick that people can judge so quickly off something that is 500 words long.

Yeah I am still looking, I will probably always be looking I am very curious as to who this person is and one day Logan probably will be too. I don't ever expect him to come forward but if he did contact me, it would only be between us two and not the world. '

'For the incredibly judgemental people thinking it is all about money, I have never accepted anything for the stories, I also have my own money, I work and I study full time, I am not this drop kick you assume me to be!' I love this beautiful boy with all my heart and I am a fantastic mother, he is strong, smart, happy and very, very loved!'

'I don't know if this will be the end of this story, I will continue living my life and raising Logan just as I have been, in no way is getting 15 minutes of fame a priority on my list.

'Logan, my family, our health and happiness is all that matters to me.'

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