Friday, August 30, 2013

Would You Use Sex as a Bargaining Chip?

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By Eky Shirley

Is SEX a Bargaining Chip????

Every couple, even those with marriages or relationships made in heaven, have their moments of disagreement. Sometimes, it could get really messy. Some people have been known to turn their backs to 'hubby' or 'wifey' when they reached out for them after 'lights out'; because they were upset. Some have been known to hold out on having sex with their mates, till they get what they want, have their requests met, etc.

Erm, okay. So you used sex as a bargaining chip and it seemingly worked. Then you make it a habit. Sorry darling, like all things, the punishment will soon loose effect. Either mate will get used to not having sex or will begin to seek it elsewhere. I may not be a 'Nollywood' proponent, but you know that scene in most where Oga of the house is getting serviced by 'a new girl'? It might soon be your fate.

Not to play devil`s advocate, but it borders on the ridiculous to deny your husband/wife sex. Even the Holy book is against it. And yes, I said wife. There are some men who with-hold sex from their wives. Want to know them? Most of them complain about nagging wives. A little expo for you; many times women nag because they cannot discuss what the real issue is. Thus, keeping your socks 'left-to-right' as opposed to 'right-to-left' becomes a big deal.

So, would you use sex as a bargaining tool? I wanna know.


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  1. Are you asking us a question or preaching to us?

  2. I think I would, but under extreme cicumstances.


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