Tuesday, May 24, 2016
Dear Myne - My Boo Just Got Engaged To Another Woman, Should I Tell Him She's A Fraudster?
Hi Myne, would like to get your advice as well as others. I have a question regarding a situation i am facing. I am in my Thirties and I met and got into a ‘relationship’ with good, Christian man that I met at church about three years ago. I really liked him and was looking forward to him making us official. For three years, he never did. We spent most of our time, meeting up, getting to know each other as friends and even getting physical at a point, but I was never asked out.
I was frustrated by this and by the fact that I sacrificed my Christian values (to remain chaste) with him. As a result, we had many fights and arguments, I even kept asking him the "Where are we going with this?" question. I loved him nonetheless and sought to understand and be patient with him. I was shocked to find out recently that he is getting married later this year.
Still hurt, i did a little digging on his fiancee and was surprised to see she was recently convicted for fraud in the United States and was imprisoned for the crime. Thing is, he may or may not know about this and even though I feel like i have moved on, i still feel obligated to let him know what he is getting into. I certainly do not plan on telling him myself.
In all of this, I surely feel rejected and discarded. I spent a lot of time, energy (and prayers!) trying to make this relationship work and feel like I failed in bagging the man of my dreams. What do i do, for myself and for him?
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